Dad, where are we going

After being a college student, I just tend to watch less tv shows and more tv series than before. One exception is Dad, where are we going. Imagine the flashlights around the children, I still can’t help watching it once a week. And next week the fifth season is going to the end. It’s not a signature to make a difference to myself or realize something significant. Maybe I’m just eager to write down the feelings in this certain period.

Various parents and various children make up various families.There is no right or wrong comments since the social background and cultural traditions differ. But something is the same. History just appears once and again. Children are not willing to leave their dad and feel fearful to the strange environment. At last, they become more independent and go on well with other families. They look back on the previous experiences, thinking it is worth to explore themselves as well as the children even in flashlights.

Keep watching Criminal Minds for about three years, I can understand how parents affect children, especially for criminals. If I could make a decision, I would rather delay the time to say goodbye to childhood and grow up as they expect. Hackers and Painters says the school is just the prison to prevent children from destroying the world and allow parents to work smoothly. But schools really provide a place for children to learn knowledge and to behave themselves. Or does it really matter to be well-behaved?

Recently, I read Seeing beloved one off by Yingtai Long and keep thinking about the relationship between two generations. Thankful for raising me up and helping me survive in the world. But we are independent, having enough freedom to go separate ways that we choose. Understanding and supports are only things left to do. Have been through the unspeakable hard time of Seeing beloved grandma and grandpa off during the last two years, maybe I have a deeper understanding among peers.

“Gradually, I realized that the so said parents and children relationship only means that you are destined to see him walking away further and further. You stand on this side of the road, and see his figure gradually disappearing in the turning, and the back shadow of his figure tell you this in silence: never chase forward.”

孩子，
我要求你读书用功，不是因为我要你跟别人比成绩，
而是因为，我希望你将来会拥有选择的权利，
选择有意义、有时间的工作，而不是被迫谋生。
当你的工作在你心中有意义，你就有成就感。
当你的工作给你时间，不剥夺你的生活，你就有尊严。
成就感和尊严，给你快乐。

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